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Thanksgiving messages, and what to write in a card

Short lines for everyone on the list, longer ones for the people who made the table happen, and what to send so the ones far away are there too.

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Thanksgiving is the one holiday that’s about saying it: what you’re grateful for, out loud, usually while someone passes the potatoes. A card or a message can do the same for the people who aren’t at the table, and for the ones who made the table happen. Here are short lines for everyone, and longer ones for the people who deserve more than a line.

Short Thanksgiving messages

For a card, a text, or the first line of a letter.

Happy Thanksgiving. Grateful for you, and for whoever’s making the gravy.

Wishing you a full table, a fuller plate and a long nap afterwards.

Happy Thanksgiving from our house to yours. Save us some pie.

Thankful for you this year and every year, even the year of the dry turkey.

Happy Thanksgiving. May your oven be on time and your relatives on their best behaviour.

Thinking of you today, and grateful you’re in our lives. Happy Thanksgiving.

Happy Thanksgiving. You’re on my list of things to be thankful for. Near the top.

Wishing you a warm, loud, happy Thanksgiving.

For family you can’t be with

If you’re missing the table this year, say what you’d be doing if you were there. The details are what make it feel like you are.

Happy Thanksgiving, Mom. I made your stuffing. It was fine. It wasn’t yours. Next year I’m coming home and you’re teaching me properly.

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone. I’ll be thinking of you at about four, when Uncle Ray starts carving and Grandma tells him he’s doing it wrong. Save me a seat and a slice.

This is my first Thanksgiving away, and I didn’t expect to miss the noise. Tell Dad the game can wait five minutes for a video call. I’m grateful for every one of you.

Happy Thanksgiving, Grandpa. Thank you for every year you said grace and kept it short. I’ll ring before dinner, so keep the phone near the pie.

For the host

Hosting Thanksgiving is a military operation with gravy. Say thank you for the work, not just the food.

Thank you for having us. The turkey was perfect, the table was beautiful and nobody mentioned politics, which I assume took planning.

Thank you for opening your home again this year. I know how early that alarm went off. Everything was wonderful, especially the pie I wasn’t supposed to have seconds of.

Thanks for a lovely Thanksgiving. Next year, let me do the washing up before you get to it.

For friends

For Friendsgiving, or for the friends who are family by now.

Happy Thanksgiving to the people I’d choose to share a table with, and do. Grateful for every one of you.

Thankful for you, for the group chat, and for the fact that you always bring the good wine.

Happy Friendsgiving. Same time next year, same disputed mac and cheese.

For colleagues

Happy Thanksgiving. Thank you for everything you’ve done this year; I hope you get a proper rest.

Wishing you and your family a happy Thanksgiving, and a long weekend with nothing in the calendar.

How to write a longer Thanksgiving letter

A card has room for a line. Some people deserve a page: the parent who drove you everywhere, the friend who got you through this year, the grandparent who started the tradition. A good Thanksgiving letter does three things.

  • It names one thing. Not “thank you for everything”, but the lift to the airport at five in the morning, or the year they took you in.
  • It says what that changed. One sentence on what it meant, then or now.
  • It brings them into the day. What the table looks like this year, who’s there, and what went wrong with the pie.

What to send with it

  • Photos. The table before anyone sat down. The pie before anyone cut it.
  • A film. Everyone round the table saying one thing they’re thankful for. Pass the phone. It’s the part they’ll watch twice.
  • A recipe. The one you made, and what you changed.

When to send it

In the US, Thanksgiving is the fourth Thursday in November, which in 2026 is Thursday 26 November. In Canada it’s the second Monday in October: Monday 12 October this year.

If you’d like your message to arrive at a particular moment, send it early and keep it sealed until the day: on Thanksgiving morning, say, or as dinner’s served. They’ll see the envelope, and a countdown, until then. A Thanksgiving envelope starts from $1.29 for a letter, and opens on any phone, anywhere, with nothing to install.

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